Creativity , the heck ?

If you are failing to put your idea/thought/experience out there to be ridiculed as audacious

If you are failing to put your idea/thought/experience out there to be dismissed as infeasible

If you are failing to put your idea/thought/experience out there to be ignored as unoriginal

If you are failing to put your idea/thought/experience out there to be chided as nonconformist

then,you should seriously ask yourself why you are in the pursuit of anything creative ?

Creativity,starts by putting it out there ( to be ridiculed,dismissed,ignored and chided) and continuing to repeat it .

 

 

 

Going live

 

When there are no more bugs that need to triaged out as “no one will use it this way”

When there are no more end users who need convincing that “this is what it is and will be”

When there are no more apolitical voices to be ignored

When there are no more features left to turn into enhancement requests for future releases

When there are no more feasible workarounds left with the legacy product

Meet me there, because that is when, it will be time to “Go-Live”

 

 

Praise vs Recognition

Swing

“look papa,no hands”

“woohoo i did it dad”

“look ,look….it works now”

one of the most heart warming moments as a parent are moments like these,where my child achieved something that i thought they were not capable of.

as throbbing beings,we are naturally wired to be curious,to seek our limits and push them

and when we go past our limits we also naturally crave artefacts that reflect an appreciation of our feats.

is it praise that our children seek ? or recognition ?

praise,from my viewpoint,is vindication. Is confirmation of the stupendity of their efforts .

“way to go Etaash!!!! ”

“well done Ajooni,keep it up ☺ ”

i suspect that this is something that they are smart enough to know . it aint trivial Dad. i know i am good papa,huff.

what i feel really spurs children on is ,recognition .

recognition of the odds that they beat,the problem solving process that they applied,their collaboration with their siblings to achieve a common goal,a new personal precedent that they set

“wow Ajooni how did you do it !?”

“that is perfect balance dear Etaash,i can never do it myself”

“i have never seen that before,teach me how you fixed it! pleeeeaseeee!”

Praise is fleeting.

Timely,authentic and frequent recognition lasts.It leads to more,something new.

With kids and at our workplace.

The three

were friends

dwelled together

but lived different lives

and different deaths

The turbulent one,dig up some else’s grave and decorated her tomb with the spoils.

She wanders the tombstones for new spoils

The peaceful one,dig her own grave,didnt yearn a tomb and gave away her spoils.

She mendicants in the living world

The intoxicated one,celebrating her own spoils,fell into someone else’s grave.

She lived some one else’s death

witches